i've an idea

for a website. yes yes i know the dot com meltdown and everything. but this is good.
living in (well, very near at least) silicon valley has shown me some of the energy of the late 90s. best of all, it isn't something that relies on any one person's effort. it'll be a team thing.
the project will need an incubation period till it becomes known and featured in wired and time magazine. But interested participants can make some money off of it. here's the $2 billion dollar idea out for everyone to see and steal (i mean the random blog readers not the 4jers)

no not a dating website. there are enough of those. it's a "dating analysis" thing. there's a lot of people who wish they were mindreaders or at least understand what their date is trying to tell them whether overtly or discretely. i'm proposing that people will go to our website and post their problem re: their date. then, like in a sports game where there's an analysis of the play, people will write in and give their opinion.

example:

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My question is now that my dates are going ok with her, how do I get her to show more initiative? She's willing to do pretty much anything I suggest, but getting her to initiate plans is a rarety. Same goes with physical contact, she's down for whatever..but I'm always the one to get it started. Don't get me wrong, by no means am I overwhelming her with date proposals, or affection...but I'm at a point where I want her to "stroke my ego" a little by making the first move, and making a brother feel desired. I'm sure plenty of readers out there can relate (hopefully I'm not the only one). I'm not asking for a magic word or anything, but there has to be some solution here..this girl has definitely got long term potential but this nonchalant thing is working my last nerves. An answer to this question would take my game to the next level. What say you??

>>>COMMENTS:
#1 PROFESSIONAL OPINION
It's attractive to women when a man leads, so if it's working for you, then keep it up.

#2 PROFESSIONAL OPINION
The only time they'll do that is if they are wild about you. Right now she's not THAT into you. Give her some space, but that alone may not work. jealousy is a powerful emotion. if you have the skills to use this, that's what i would suggest.

#3 PROFESSIONAL OPINION
if she's hot, then she gets offers ALL THE TIME from men, and she is completely used to the idea of men offering her things, calling her, etc.
It might just be that her model of the world revolves around this idea.

#1 LAYMAN'S OPINION
if things are going so well, then who cares about "her showing initiative"?=============================================

naturally the site will be for men and women.we'll have "professional opinions" and also laymen's opinions on what the guy / gal should do. the professionals can be "promoted" from 'laymen' status if they display wit or maturity or game.
of course, it is all dependent on the writers. the written opinions have to be good. the writers have to have game or be mature or at least be funny, like FHM or Maxim funny. for men, we can call the subsection the "the stud farm" or the "play-ah operat-ah" for women how about "the mindreader"

here's another example

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What do you do in a situation where you have set up a coffee date with a woman and she blows you off by not showing up? The problem specifically is how do you react when you see this woman again. I work out in a local gym and had asked one of the personal trainers to coffee. However, I was stood up and I see her everyday. Would you respond by ignoring her ( which seems childish and behaving in the immature manner she treated me by not respecting me and my time) or by talking to her ( and thereby acting like a spineless wimp) ? Any input would be greatly appreciated.

>>> COMMENTS:
#1 PROFESSIONAL OPINION

I want to answer your question FIRST with another question:
WHO'S PROBLEM IS IT THAT SHE BLEW YOU OFF AND FLAKED?
It all depends on your perspective.
When a woman flakes out on me, I see it as a HUGE mistake that SHE made.
So if/when I see her again, I shake my head in disappointment and say "Well you sure missed out on a good time"Don't let it bother you. Just move on. Many women are flakes.

suggested topics:

a. getting a woman who was interested in you (but not anymore) back

so is it worth a coupl'a bucks?